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NFIS Schools Advice Oct 2020 (pdf)

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A child is struggling to attend school - what can we do?

Support Mental Health Issues in Children & Young People

Children suffer with mental health difficulties for a range of complex reasons. The Government recommends that schools develop a mental health policy that creates an environment where young people with anxiety feel supported, understood, and able to seek help, making it more likely they will feel safe and able to attend school.

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Assess for SEND, especially if anxiety is a reason for absence

Many children have an underlying Special Educational Need or Disability that contributes to their anxiety; this can include Autistic Spectrum Conditions, ADHD, Sensory Processing Disorder or Dyslexia. 


SEND also include Social, Emotional or Mental Health Difficulties, which could affect a child's ability to establish friendships, cope with a variety of strong emotions, and increase a child's vulnerability to bullying.


High levels of anxiety can be classed as a disability and are a barrier to learning requiring the use of assess-plan-do- review cycles. Children and young people will need a consistent, individual support plan which is shared with all staff. If children struggle to engage, they need patience and an experienced professional to help them access the right support.


Explore and reflect upon possible triggers and reasons for a child's inability to cope or thrive in the school environment, Research possible influences such as autistic burnout, PDA, PANS/PANDAS, sensorial difficulties, executive function difficulties, social anxiety, excessive academic pressure, detrimental behaviour policies, bullying, puberty, physical health difficulties or peer pressure. Use resources that aim to explore the child's views and feelings, and consider referring them for assessments, therapy, mentoring or treatment if appropriate.

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Make a Referral for Assessment by an Educational Psychologist

In addition to the support put in place by the SENDCO, an Educational Psychologist can assess an anxious child and recommend appropriate interventions. This input can be useful as inability to attend school is often a symptom of a significant need or problem that requires more specialist knowledge and understanding. Many Educational Psychology Services now offer an EBSA service or pathway which you can utilise so it is worth checking what is on offer in your area.

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Make or Support a Referral to CAMHS

Where severe problems occur, which are beyond the range of in-school mental health provision, schools should facilitate the child's access to more specialist support. The school nurse, or school directly can support or provide further evidence to expedite a referral. Parents can also ask for referrals to CAMHS, and Paediatricians  through their GP.   Unfortunately there are often long wait times for referrals , but support from schools goes a long way to ensuring the young people gain access to necessary treatment.

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Explore your Local Authority’s Local Offer

Schools can collaborate with other local services and providers to explore how individual needs can be met most effectively. The Local Offer can be an invaluable source of resources, information, advice and relevant support.

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Collaborate to Create a Child-Led Support Plan

It is important that all professionals ensure that children and their parents participate as fully as possible in decisions leading to a support plan. Health and SEND professionals can advise schools on developing support plans that are flexible, child-led and sympathetic to the features of anxiety disorders, Autism, ADHD and other medical conditions.  Plans must be communicated to all staff, and combined with development of relevant staff training and whole-school awareness. Although this may be harder to achieve in a large secondary school than a small local primary, it is fundamental to success.


THINGS TO CONSIDER:

  

  • Look at a time when the child's attendance was good – what was happening then that helped them attend?
  • Have you completed assessments (or referred to someone who can assess the child) to identify any anxiety triggers or unmet needs?
  • What are the reported worries/concerns and what can you do to resolve them? (see reasonable adjustments below)
  • What is working well - why?
  • What is not working well - why?
  • Who is monitoring whether the actions/provision/support that is promised is happening/taking place/being provided and do they have the power to intervene?
  • Which local authority services can you refer to for assistance? (see the Local Offer)
  • Schools have an anticipatory duty to make reasonable adjustments to policies, expectations and practices to address a child's needs related to disability (Equality Act 2010). Some examples of reasonable adjustments suggested by our group members include:

     

  1. Letting the child choose when he/she comes in to school
  2. Being able to choose which lessons she/he does each day
  3. No forced attendance
  4. Giving her/him a safe space to go whenever she/he wants
  5. Letting him/her sit with a friend in every lesson
  6. Never picking on her/him in class (to read aloud or answer questions) 
  7. Letting her/him drop a subject that causes anxiety i.e. PE 
  8. Paying for/referral to appropriate therapy
  9. Permission to leave the class at any time
  10. Dedicated quiet desk outside the class for regular breaks
  11. Time-out pass to leave lesson early to avoid busy transition between lessons
  12. Relaxed uniform rules
  13. Access to sensory aids
  14. Taking in a small fidget toy/teddy/toy/object from home.
  15. Regular movement breaks
  16. Allowed to have a snack at the end of the day before leaving
  17. Early access into classroom in the morning
  18. Not going in through a very noisy and busy playground in the morning
  19. Sending work home if child unable to attend
  20. Going to lunch early so he/she doesn't have to cope with the crowds
  21. Allocated quiet area for lunchtimes
  22. Reserved seat on bus
  23. A locker in a quieter part of the school
  24. No pressure about completing homework
  25. Agreement not to question/pressure the child about absences
  26. Activities to help child go into school in a happy frame of mind
  27. No requirement to attend assemblies
  28. Extra time to complete homework
  29. No sanctions (ie isolation, detention) for anything SEND related
  30. Commitment to listen to the child
  31. To have staff willing to 'think outside the box'
  32. A safe person at school who builds a trusting relationship - Child goes to their office whenever she/he wants to and can stay as long as she/he wants. They know that this safe person will email teachers about any issues and resolve any problems
  33. Learning in the learning support base
  34. Alternative provisions with animal based activities
  35. Preparation/warning before a change of timetable
  36. Allowing child to go home or to his/her safe space when overwhelmed
  37. No spelling tests for a child who's dyslexic 
  38. Child can bring safe foods for lunch even if it's not a healthy food option
  39. A toilet pass
  40. Option to stay in at playtimes for sensory or colouring breaks
  41. Communication cards to help child express their needs
  42. Child doesn't need to change into PE kit
  43. A SEND passport
  44. Use of overlays for dyslexia
  45. Forest school
  46. Lego therapy
  47. Access to a Mentor each week
  48. Child sits at the front or near the door in all lessons
  49. Technology to support learning needs (e.g, laptop, text-to-speech pen, Ipad)
  50. A visual timetable

SCHOOL ANXIETY: Signs, causes & strategies

Apply for an EHCP Assessment

An EHCP application is crucial if a school does not have the expertise or funding to fully identify a child's needs, or to offer the provision or support a child requires to access an effective education. Parents can also apply to the LA for an ECHP assessment, but a joint approach will be the most beneficial way forward. There have been delays in processing EHCP applications nationally, so support during this process is invaluable.

THE 'BEST ENDEAVOURS' DUTY

Medical Conditions

All medical conditions should be identified.  Some illnesses are complex, or less common and may take time to diagnose and treat. Underlying physical illness can add to a child's anxiety.  School must follow medical advice, and work with parents and children to support their health and wellbeing, and reduce the risk of further deterioration . 


The Department for Education has issued Statutory Guidance and Departmental Advice (best practice) on “Supporting pupils at school with medical conditions“. The governing body of a maintained school, proprietor of an academy and management committee of a pupil referral unit must have regard to the Statutory Guidance in this document. This means that they must follow it unless there is a good reason not to.


Schools should have a Policy for Support for Pupils with Medical Needs. 


Schools should also consider if an Individual Healthcare Plan is a proportionate  response to a child's medical condition

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Authorise Absence Due to Illness

According to the DfE absence due to both physical and mental illness should be recorded as authorised absence. The potential legal implications of unauthorised absences rarely help improve attendance, can add to the child's anxiety and substantially increase the difficulties families face. Attendance cannot take priority over health needs and families need your support rather than fines and prosecution.


For many children experiencing anxiety in response to barriers to attendance the significant emotional component might be considered mental ill-health and absence could be authorised on that basis.


Should school non-attendance be treated as a crime?

Provide Homework & Connections While the Child or Young Person is Unable to Attend

Not supplying learning opportunities during absence means the pupil gets further behind which adds to anxieties around returning to school.

 

While on roll a school receives funding for a child so you should consider how to use that funding to support their learning in ways that reflect their needs and abilities. Your responsibility to provide an education doesn't cease if they are unable to attend.


You should notify the local authority if absence due to illness lasts for over 15 days (consecutive or cumulative). The LA have a duty to ensure that a child receives alternative educational provision whilst absent. See Arranging education for children who cannot attend school because of health needs 


Recovery can be a very slow process for many children and young people despite everyone’s best efforts; helping them feel connected, significant and welcomed may encourage that big step back into school. Long term recovery needs a focus on support and encouragement for a child to enjoy other activities and friendships (not only those related to school). This will help rebuild their self-esteem, confidence and happiness, all of which are integral aspects of a child's recovery.

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Safeguarding

Whilst reduced school attendance is a criteria for safeguarding concerns  it is important for all professionals involved to gather evidence of the factors which may be impacting on attendance  including SEND, health difficulties, and physical and  mental health problems, including the impact of high thresholds for referrals, and long waiting times. It is crucial to consider:

  • Does this child need reasonable adjustments or plans to be adapted for them to be able to attend school?  
  • Is this child really 'fine' while in school? 

Forced Attendance?

There can be many different reasons why a child may start to show signs of school refusal. It can happen gradually, or it can happen overnight. The reason can be obvious, or it can baffle both caregivers and school staff, but when a child is frightened adults must pay attention as their reactions can help or make things a whole lot worse.


The combination of guilt for the child, pressure from schools and heavy-handed threats of fines and prosecution does nothing to ease the strain on these families and is not evidence based practice. Relationships between caregivers and schools can start to break down as their priorities diverge at this point, when instead the focus needs to be on working together in the best interests of the child.


The number one rule of getting a child to go back to school is: 

PLEASE, DO NOT FORCE ATTENDANCE

Almost half (45.5%) of the 1,661 parents in the NFIS Attendance Difficulties survey (May 2018) stated that they have physically forced their child to attend school because they felt under pressure to do so. In addition, 21.2% felt under this pressure but had refused to force attendance.


 When asked if the use of force was helpful in resolving their child’s anxiety, 


36% of parents said ‘NO’

59.1% said it has made things MUCH WORSE. 


Only 0.4% of parents thought force helped, 

& 4.5% thought it might have helped. 

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FORCING ATTENDANCE Nov 2020 (pdf)

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LET'S WORK TOGETHER

Unfortunately, many parents currently report being blamed and pressured to improve attendance, without due regard to the severity of their child's difficulties. Many children are being described as ‘fine in school', when in reality they are not fine, as they often mask or internalise their distress while in school.


We recognise that there are limited resources in schools, but many helpful actions including understanding, are cost free! The longer anxious children are unsupported the harder it will be for them to return to school. Continuing to describe anxious children as being ‘fine in school' means they are less likely to be able to access the help they need to recover, and ultimately to attend regularly and achieve their potential.


Families often struggle because they find that school staff, CAMHS staff and Social Services staff do not know how each other work and do not communicate effectively. This means families get trapped in a cycle of being given advice or information by one service that is then disputed by another and this is very difficult to navigate or resolve.


Working together will be much more beneficial for all involved

NEW DFE SCHOOL ATTENDANCE GUIDANCE

The Department for Education has published new statutory School Attendance Guidance, 'Working together to improve attendance' to be applied from August 19th 2024


The recommended approach is a focus on building relationships to facilitate access to support. 

DfE Guidance

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DfE Training webinars

Working Together to Improve School Attendance: DfE guidance overview for schools

This webinar covers the key principles behind the DfE's 'Working Together to improve school attendance' guidance. It highlights the main expectations for schools, and what has changed in the latest update for Autumn term 2024.

National framework for penalty notices for school absence overview

This webinar provides an overview of the new national framework for penalty notices for schools and local authority services which applies from August 2024. It will summarise the new national threshold for considering a penalty notice, the escalation for repeat offences and the use of the 'notice to improve' where support is appropriate.

School Attendance Register: Attendance and Absence Codes

This webinar provides an overview of recording attendance and absence in the register using the codes that will be mandatory from August 2024, in the School Attendance (Pupil Registration) (England) Regulations 2024.

Q & A - School attendance register: attendance and absence codes

This webinar provides answers to the questions submitted in the overview of recording attendance and absence in the register.  Providing help for using the attendance and absence codes that will be mandatory from August 2024, in line with the School Attendance (Pupil Registration) (England) Regulations 2024.

SQUARE PEGS

About this book:

Written by Fran Morgan with Ellie Costello and edited by Ian Gilbert, Square Pegs: Inclusivity, compassion and fitting in – a guide for schools is a book for educators who find themselves torn between a government/Ofsted narrative around behaviour, attendance and attainment, and their own passion for supporting square pegs and their families.

Over the last few years, changes in education have made it increasingly hard for those children who don’t ‘fit’ the system – the square pegs in a rigid system of round holes.

Budget cuts, the loss of support staff, an overly academic curriculum, problems in the special educational needs and disabilities (SEND) system and difficulties accessing mental health support have all compounded pre-existing problems with behaviour and attendance. The ‘attendance = attainment’ and zero-tolerance narrative is often at odds with the way schools want to work with their communities, and many school leaders don’t know which approach to take.

This book will be invaluable in guiding leaders and teaching staff through the most effective ways to address this challenge. It covers a broad spectrum of opportunity, from proven psychological approaches to technological innovations. It tests the boundaries of the current system in terms of curriculum, pedagogy and statutory Department for Education guidance. And it also presents a clear, legalese-free view of education, SEND and human rights law, where leaders have been given responsibility for its implementation but may not always fully understand the legal ramifications of their decisions or may be pressured into unlawful behaviour.

Bringing different perspectives and expertise together in one place, Square Pegs aims to help school leaders and staff support children (and their families) more effectively. The authors cover a wide variety of topics – including school attendance, building relationships, trauma-informed practice, and behaviour management. Featuring contributions from more than 50 individual authors, this is an accessible, dip-in, dip-out book – perfect for busy school leaders.

Suitable for all professionals working in education and the related issues surrounding children and young people’s mental health, as well as policymakers, academics and government ministers.

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Mental health difficulties

Youth mental health difficulties

Things students with anxiety wish their teachers understood

The Window of Tolerance

UNDERSTANDING EBSA: ANNA FREUD NCCF

Natalie Merrett, Head of Knowledge Dissemination in Schools is joined by Vicky Saward, Head of Schools Training at the Anna Freud Centre and Brenda McHugh MBE, Consultant Psychotherapist and Co-Founder of the Pears Family School to explore the topic of emotionally-based school avoidance and how schools, parents and professionals can best support young people who are affected.

EBSA GUIDANCE: LANCASHIRE CC

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School AVOIDANCE: what is (and isn't) school AVOIDANCE?

School ANXIETY: ideas for supporting pupils

EXAMPLES OF ALTERNATIVE SUPPORT FOR YOUR PUPILS

DARE TO DREAM FOUNDATION

The Dare2Dream Foundation deliver a wide variety of highly bespoke social and emotional wellbeing, positive behaviour support and alternative education provisions.

The core aim of our work is to enhance both the mental health and life opportunities of vulnerable children and young people.

Our work is located in some of the most deprived areas of the UK, with an increasingly high number of children suffering from a variety of mental health conditions.

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RED BALLOON LEARNER CENTRES

Red Balloon was established with the primary aim of providing a full-time education for children who have self-excluded from mainstream school because of severe bullying or other trauma.

The aim is to raise their self-esteem, enable them to come to terms with what has happened and help them learn how to deal with difficult situations. Ultimately, we want to help students get back on an academic track so they can return to education or move on to college or work.

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ACADEMY 21

Flexibility and quality of provision are fundamental to schools and local authorities when they consider alternative providers.

Pupils enrolled with Academy21 can learn from any suitable location where there is a broadband connection and computer. This is usually from a home, school, PRU, AP setting or other learning centre. Learners remain on roll locally with all attendance and progress data provided 24/7 to the designated school or local authority officer via our online reporting systems.

Our experienced, subject specialist teachers deliver lessons via our online classroom to groups of up to 15 learners who will be logging in from all over the country. The classroom is easy to navigate and use and provides the opportunity for each pupil to manage their level of interaction with their teacher, peers, lesson activities and content.

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Useful Downloads

EBSA Guide 2018 West Sussex Ed Psych Dept (pdf)

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Primary School Survival and Regulation (jpg)

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Secondary School Survival and Regulation (jpg)

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Mental Health Toolkit for Schools (pdf)

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Example Mental Health Policy and Guidance for Schools (docx)

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NUT the Law and You (pdf)

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Reasonable Adjustments for Disabled Pupils (pdf)

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Environments where children can flourish (pdf)

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NASEN Everyone Included SEN (pdf)

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Wellbeing and SEN Secondary Schools (pdf)

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UNISON Guidance for Medical Needs in Schools (pdf)

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Preventing and Tackling Bullying (pdf)

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Medical Needs Legal-Situation-in-Schools (pdf)

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Equality Act Guidance for Schools (pdf)

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DfE SEN Support REA Report (pdf)

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